Chances are the ones you have in your stations are copies of the old TMOne Alpine and Speed titlepacks, which is probably causing the blacklist error, since those aren't supported anymore.
The error where "Load for Everyone" is grayed out is because you have no empty stations available to install the titlepack into. Really, the game should tell you that, but it doesn't.
So you'd need to either free up one of your stations by unloading a titlepack from it (select a station that has a titlepack and then hit DEL on your keyboard - it'll ask if you want to remove it from the station). Or buy some additional stations. They're like 5000 planets for 3 more stations. Then you should be able to install the new TMOne Alpine.